Monday, September 25, 2006
the stories that happened yesterday
it is monday again..back to school again.you know weekend always ended so soon.
yeah last week was the last lesson for the marriage sermon series.it was really nice,funny and romantic.the married couples renewed their vows towards each other.it was really sweet..saw sis vivien and pst ken on stage.so cute.haha of cos sun came back too.saw cutie dayan!he looks so like pst kong.lol.although i'm not attached but i could feel that love is in the air during service,everyone is so happy and i felt happy too..hope that my future husband will be someone romantic..hahaha.
of course during this marriage series..it seems like more people got attached..like bro philip,bro shaun..erm..david & liwen.still got somemore but i couldn't remember.
yeah the building fund period is coming up soon.excited but this is the time when we are going to give our best in the midst of maybe financial problems for some of us?yeah i don't have financial problems but maybe my father..coz he got to pay for me and brother's education.coz my brother gone to private school and you know it's expensive and he's studying for a degree which cost a bomb.thank god this sem i still could use my edusave to pay off half of my school fee.yeah school till now is not bad,the class starts to be more open now and that's great.most of us haven really hit it well with our new classmates but looks like wendy is doing well.they went for movie today.that's like so good.erm..lately i got quite a lot of thoughts.there's something which kind of struck me but i kind of expected but never knew it had gone that far.well what i could say is if that's what you think is right then i got nothing to say.it is so immature and senseless i should say.nvm forget about this.lately xuan was so "mesmerized" by someone.lol aiya normal ma.i was once lidat.as we chat and stuff..i told xuan some time ago that i have not really literally "forget" him.i mean it is kind of impossible coz i still see him sometimes.that night when i stayed over at huixin's house.she asked me whether i still miss him.actually i don't know.but i felt happy and sad at the same time.happy because he gotten someone he loved.sad because someone great is taken.lol.i mean i admit that sometimes i still think of him but is only like few mins?on sat service..pst kong said something i think it kind of struck many people..lol he says "infactuation = infacted with foolishness" i agreed with it and it is true because when you are literally "in love" with someone.you could do anything and everything to get the person's attention or whatever.here's something interesting in sat's service sermon..hope you like this. =)THE SEVEN FACTS ABOUT LOVE.- love at first sight is RARE. - true love needs time to develop
- most people could "fall in love" MANY TIMES. - they key is to fall in love with the same person over again and again.
- love in marriage is NEVER consistent.
- love in marriage has many LEVELS and QUALITY.
- love in marriage can DIMINISH and even die.
- love has different STYLE of expression.
- the BEST FRIEND love style. - grow through companionship
- the GAME PLAYING love style.
- the LOGICAL love style. - beneficial in long term.
- the POSSSESSIVE love style.
- the ROMANTIC love style. - pros the person might be in love with love but not the person
- the UNSELFISH love. - compromise and be understanding
red = the styles most woman adopt, blue = the styles most man adopt, green = the professional thinks of the best match.
7. love must be openly and consistently EXPRESSED in a manner that registers with your spouse
going to sleep lo..nitez everyone.12.10am now.
10:06 AM